How to Navigate Transitions: Lessons Learned from the Transition That Almost Gave Me a Nervous Breakdown

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How to Navigate Transitions: Lessons Learned from the Transition That Almost Gave Me a Nervous Breakdown

My biggest issue with bulerías when I got to Jerez was transitions. Well, ok, that’s not really true, my biggest issue after fear. But the transitions.

It was like all of a sudden I couldn’t see them.

And I didn’t know what to do.

I've since learned how to approach difficult transitions more gracefully. (I'll tell you how in just a moment.) I'll also explain to you in detail the transition that almost gave me a nervous breakdown along with some things you might like to know about "counting" bulerías de Jerez.

But first, allow me to give you some background ...

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How to Play Castanets for Sevillanas | La Cuarta

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How to Play Castanets for Sevillanas | La Cuarta

Learning to play castanets can be frustrating, especially in the beginning.

But that doesn’t mean you shouldn’t do it.

In the coming days I’ll be sharing some tips on how to deal with some potential frustrations that come with learning this (completely and totally worth it to learn) technique.

For today, let's look at the toque for thefourth copla por sevillanas.

As usual, you'll find it written in two different ways.  Use whichever makes the most sense to you.  And remember, there are different variations of the toques, and this is one of many!

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What You Need to Know if You Want to Dance with the Bata & The Kitchen Sessions

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What You Need to Know if You Want to Dance with the Bata & The Kitchen Sessions

Me and the bata de cola.

You could say that there’s really no excuse for me not being able to dance well with the bata.

Because I’ve had several experiences, various opportunities to learn.

I'll tell you about a one of my favorites today, and after the story, I'll tell you why you should study the bata even if you don't ever want to dance with it, and I'll share with you another bata need-to-know.

A [very] brief history of my bata experiences

You know about the first,

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An Alegrías by David Lagos | Viernes con una Letra

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An Alegrías by David Lagos | Viernes con una Letra

This will make your day.

TRUST me.

It's a video of David Lagos live por alegrías accompanied by his brother, Alfredo Lagos.

You should know, if you don't already, that David is nice.

You should also know, if you don't already, that he writes beautiful letras.

And you might as well know that one of my favorite things ever is listening to David Lagos sing por alegrías and that when I hear him sing alegrías live I cry every time ... 

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Tell Me - Lole y Manuel

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Tell Me - Lole y Manuel

Below find a snippet of Lole y Manuel's Dime along with a video.

Dime ...

Si has cortao alguna flor 
sin que temblaran tus manos, dime ...

Tell me ...

If you have ever picked a flower 
without your hands trembling, tell me ...

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Why She Starts Class in the Back of the Room

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Why She Starts Class in the Back of the Room

Evelyn likes being in the back of the room. In the back where she thinks she can hide.

In the back where it feels safe.

Evelyn is a student and a reader here.  I wish you could meet her.

She sent us an email, Evelyn did.  She wrote it in response to this.

I wanted to share it with you immediately upon reading it.

She talked about wanting to hide in the back of the class.  Even wanting to leave.  About feeling stupid.  And about feeling afraid.

I knew these thoughts she spoke of

As a fellow fearful stay-in-the-back-of-the-classer, I knew these thoughts.

I figured you might know them too, so I asked her if I could share her words with you.  And she said yes.

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Part 2: How to Challenge Yourself When Class Feels Too Easy

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Part 2: How to Challenge Yourself When Class Feels Too Easy

Yesterday in Part 1, I told you what I do when class feels to hard, how I make it more do-able, more enjoyable.

My lazy pants

When class feels too easy it usually means I could be doing a lot more to challenge myself.  In other words, I need not leave it up to the teacher or the moves.

And as I mentioned yesterday, what we get out of class is really up to us, and we can benefit from any class.

Sometimes we get anxious ...

Why is it moving so slowly?  Come on, already!

And we wonder if we’ll ever progress at this rate.

To be perfectly honest, my freak outs generally come from feeling that class is too hard, which you likely know by now.

But when I start noticing myself spacing out, bored, or antsy in class, here are some things I do:

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An Interview with Bailaora Mercedes Ruíz

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An Interview with Bailaora Mercedes Ruíz

You've likely read all of the written interviews here with Mercedes Ruíz. You've probably seen the interview with her husband, Santiago Lara.

And now, here's that video interview with Mercedes Ruíz that I've been promising you

We filmed it in Jerez last spring just after the FlamencoTour.

In the video below Mercedes talks about the road to becoming a soloist, how she navigates motherhood and flamenco dance, her thoughts on teaching those of us who are not pros, and some other stuff.

Oh, and by the way, you'll probably love her even more after seeing this video, so get ready...

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Part 1: How to Make Class (& Life) Easier When You Feel Like You Have No Idea What You're Doing

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Part 1: How to Make Class (& Life) Easier When You Feel Like You Have No Idea What You're Doing

Sometimes class feels too easy.  And other times it feels too hard.

I've been in both situations.

And here's what I've discovered

When class feels too easy, it's usually because I've got my lazy pants on. No seas floja, Laura.

When class feels too difficult, it's usually because hard-on-myself me has taken over. Tranquila, Chiquilla. 

We can get a lot or a little out of class

And it's really up to us.

I mean it.

There is basically one main concept to understand to help us get the most of any class.

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Five Things You Need to Know About Dancing Bulerías  

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Five Things You Need to Know About Dancing Bulerías  

Bulerías.

It is the thing that everyone dances, even the guitarists and the singers.

It is the thing that, besides Mercedes, keeps calling me back to Jerez.

It is where we really let our personalities show.

It is SO MUCH FUN.

But there are certain must-knows for doing this dance.

Perhaps the first is that we all need to do it.  I'm not joking about that.

You can’t do flamenco and NOT do bulerías, even though I used to think you could.

It is not easy.

We know that.

So let's look at five essentials, five things we need to know in order to dance bulerías:

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How I Overcame my Fear of Bulerías (and why I used to hate this dance)

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How I Overcame my Fear of Bulerías (and why I used to hate this dance)

My main obstacle to bulerías has always been fear.

Not trusting my instincts.

It's no different from my main obstacle in life

I know indecision well. 

No wonder bulerías has always been so hard for me,

Not enough trust.

In a moment I'll tell you how I've let go of a lot of my bulerías fears (and how you can do the same).

Because the truth is, now I kind of can't get enough of bulerías.

It is not that the fear has been eradicated, it's that the excitement and fun usually slide it over to the side now.  Gracias excitement and fun.

But before I get into any fear eradication techniques, let me give you a bit of background:

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